Comments on: The Decline Of The English Society: The Mothers’ Country http://www.anorak.co.uk/181894/tabloids/the-decline-of-the-english-society-the-mothers-country.html Tabloid news for broadsheet readers Thu, 26 Nov 2009 09:31:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Trisha Gould http://www.anorak.co.uk/181894/tabloids/the-decline-of-the-english-society-the-mothers-country.html/comment-page-1#comment-254398 Trisha Gould Thu, 13 Mar 2008 12:33:06 +0000 http://www.anorak.co.uk/tabloids/181894.html#comment-254398 I agree whole heartedly with the comments of Mr Ellis as a mother and grandmother i have watched helplessly as familys are torn apart children kept away from their fathers because their mothers have the desire to keep the father away, telling lies to get the courts to side with them, grandparents kept away from their grandchildren because of a bitter mother, i beseech the government to step in and change the family law in this country giving fathers more rights andallowing them to have contact with their children. T Gould I agree whole heartedly with the comments of Mr Ellis as a mother and grandmother i have watched helplessly as familys are torn apart children kept away from their fathers because their mothers have the desire to keep the father away, telling lies to get the courts to side with them, grandparents kept away from their grandchildren because of a bitter mother, i beseech the government to step in and change the family law in this country giving fathers more rights andallowing them to have contact with their children. T Gould

]]> By: Mike Ellis http://www.anorak.co.uk/181894/tabloids/the-decline-of-the-english-society-the-mothers-country.html/comment-page-1#comment-254351 Mike Ellis Thu, 13 Mar 2008 11:58:20 +0000 http://www.anorak.co.uk/tabloids/181894.html#comment-254351 Mothers in arms: The deaths that sparked a debate but found no solutions from Gordon Brown or the powers that be. National Charity makes its response. In the aftermath of Mr Newlove’s dastardly murder and the media revelation, quote “Their upbringings followed a typical pattern - most come from broken homes with no fathers” unquote http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=508726&in_page_id=1770 We feel it a necessity yet again to highlight the enclosed facts regarding the erosion of family life by State interference this to the very detriment of children and society alike. In the aftermath of Garry Newlove’s dastardly murder and the rising yob culture. National charity speaks out. Politicians condemn the rising 'culture of youth violence' and rightly so but fails to address the root cause. We are but one of many charities/organizations who on a daily basis find ourselves confronted with the suffering that has become all to clear since government incentives were introduced to secure children for the conveyor belt of foster care and adoption via Social Services this from wholesome parents. Reiterate we must, for was it not the Queen in her Christmas message who stressed the importance of the family. She said that traditional family values had a much-needed stabilizing effect in our rapidly-changing world. The Queen, 81, said: "One of the features of growing old is heightened awareness of change. "To remember what happened 50 years ago means that it is possible to appreciate what has changed in the meantime. It also makes you aware of what has remained constant. In my experience, the positive value of a happy family is one of the factors of human existence that has not changed. The immediate family of grandparents, parents and children, together with extended family, is still the core of a thriving community." Unquote. For our part the NSCFC respectfully applauds such words of wisdom by the Queen and wishes to publically beseech her majesty as the constitutional monarch, to express, encourage and warn of the dire consequences were her Government to continue to dismantle family life thus leading to a defragmented society in which children are the ultimate victims. Breakdown in Society and family life is that of the Prime Minister and his parties own making, hence if Gordon Brown does not address this reality neither he nor anyone else in the Labour Party will be fit for office. Fact, since 1997 when Labour came to office well over 400,000 children have needlessly lost contact with their fathers due to the unjust family court system which favours mothers and denies children and fathers the Right to family life as should be so in accordance with Human Rights Act article 8 and the Convention on the Rights of the Child. Sadly due to PM policy and ideology re family law 100 children per day loose contact and over one million grandparents like all grandparents have no legal presumption to see their grandchildren, indeed all the paternal side of the child’s family is removed after separation or divorce by judges who put the interest of mothers regardless of character before the interest of the children. Also reminded are we that over 80% of all children in our schools are from one parent families, many of whom through no fault of their own have become dysfunctional in their mindset and conduct, that this in turn leads to underachievement and anti social behaviour. Only the other day Social Services contacted us as to how we felt this can be tackled and handled within the school setting given that it impacts on everyone concerned. So easy is it for us to condemn youngsters today as if their conduct bears no relation to the lack of role models they have been denied in their formative years in the form of fathers, mothers, grandparents and extended family. Hence it’s no wonder that many youngsters turn to gangs as a sense of belonging and so begins the downward spiral. Parity in family law is a must if we are to have any chance of addressing children, parents and family love denied due to State interference and this the Government needs to acknowledge and address with full commitment, only then will we have any chance on reversing the downward spiral akin to juvenile delinquency and the ramifications thereof. The family, both maternal and paternal is the bedrock of all civilization and any politician or religious leader worth his/her salt should be there to fight for its very existence without fear or favour, for not to do so is to witness society implode before our very eyes. Needless to say please help to reverse this downward spiral. With this in mind we beseech the press and media to support our campaign that children in their formative years might not continue to be deprived of family love and input much needed by maternal and paternal sides of the family after seperation or divorce. National Society for Children and Family Contact (NSCFC) is a registered charity which believes that continuing contact with a child’s parents or extended family after separation or divorce is vital for the child’s balanced development and it works tirelessly to foster those all-important family contacts. As such we offer free support and advice to all those in need. Helpline at National rate also available 24/7 on 0870 794 0075 or at www.nscfc.com Mike Ellis Chairman: “National Society for Children and Family Contact”. Tel: 0870 7940075 www.nscfc.com Mothers in arms: The deaths that sparked a debate but found no solutions from Gordon Brown or the powers that be. National Charity makes its response.

In the aftermath of Mr Newlove’s dastardly murder and the media revelation, quote “Their upbringings followed a typical pattern - most come from broken homes with no fathers” unquote http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=508726&in_page_id=1770

We feel it a necessity yet again to highlight the enclosed facts regarding the erosion of family life by State interference this to the very detriment of children and society alike.

In the aftermath of Garry Newlove’s dastardly murder and the rising yob culture.

National charity speaks out.

Politicians condemn the rising ‘culture of youth violence’ and rightly so but fails to address the root cause.

We are but one of many charities/organizations who on a daily basis find ourselves confronted with the suffering that has become all to clear since government incentives were introduced to secure children for the conveyor belt of foster care and adoption via Social Services this from wholesome parents.
Reiterate we must, for was it not the Queen in her Christmas message who stressed the importance of the family.
She said that traditional family values had a much-needed stabilizing effect in our rapidly-changing world.
The Queen, 81, said: “One of the features of growing old is heightened awareness of change.
“To remember what happened 50 years ago means that it is possible to appreciate what has changed in the meantime. It also makes you aware of what has remained constant.
In my experience, the positive value of a happy family is one of the factors of human existence that has not changed. The immediate family of grandparents, parents and children, together with extended family, is still the core of a thriving community.” Unquote.
For our part the NSCFC respectfully applauds such words of wisdom by the Queen and wishes to publically beseech her majesty as the constitutional monarch, to express, encourage and warn of the dire consequences were her Government to continue to dismantle family life thus leading to a defragmented society in which children are the ultimate victims.

Breakdown in Society and family life is that of the Prime Minister and his parties own making, hence if Gordon Brown does not address this reality neither he nor anyone else in the Labour Party will be fit for office.
Fact, since 1997 when Labour came to office well over 400,000 children have needlessly lost contact with their fathers due to the unjust family court system which favours mothers and denies children and fathers the Right to family life as should be so in accordance with Human Rights Act article 8 and the Convention on the Rights of the Child. Sadly due to PM policy and ideology re family law 100 children per day loose contact and over one million grandparents like all grandparents have no legal presumption to see their grandchildren, indeed all the paternal side of the child’s family is removed after separation or divorce by judges who put the interest of mothers regardless of character before the interest of the children.
Also reminded are we that over 80% of all children in our schools are from one parent families, many of whom through no fault of their own have become dysfunctional in their mindset and conduct, that this in turn leads to underachievement and anti social behaviour. Only the other day Social Services contacted us as to how we felt this can be tackled and handled within the school setting given that it impacts on everyone concerned. So easy is it for us to condemn youngsters today as if their conduct bears no relation to the lack of role models they have been denied in their formative years in the form of fathers, mothers, grandparents and extended family. Hence it’s no wonder that many youngsters turn to gangs as a sense of belonging and so begins the downward spiral. Parity in family law is a must if we are to have any chance of addressing children, parents and family love denied due to State interference and this the Government needs to acknowledge and address with full commitment, only then will we have any chance on reversing the downward spiral akin to juvenile delinquency and the ramifications thereof. The family, both maternal and paternal is the bedrock of all civilization and any politician or religious leader worth his/her salt should be there to fight for its very existence without fear or favour, for not to do so is to witness society implode before our very eyes. Needless to say please help to reverse this downward spiral. With this in mind we beseech the press and media to support our campaign that children in their formative years might not continue to be deprived of family love and input much needed by maternal and paternal sides of the family after seperation or divorce.

National Society for Children and Family Contact (NSCFC) is a registered charity which believes that continuing contact with a child’s parents or extended family after separation or divorce is vital for the child’s balanced development and it works tirelessly to foster those all-important family contacts. As such we offer free support and advice to all those in need. Helpline at National rate also available 24/7 on 0870 794 0075 or at http://www.nscfc.com
Mike Ellis
Chairman: “National Society for Children and Family Contact”.
Tel: 0870 7940075
http://www.nscfc.com

]]> By: JuneJohnson http://www.anorak.co.uk/181894/tabloids/the-decline-of-the-english-society-the-mothers-country.html/comment-page-1#comment-253388 JuneJohnson Wed, 12 Mar 2008 11:06:44 +0000 http://www.anorak.co.uk/tabloids/181894.html#comment-253388 You never know the politicians might take it onboard for their election jamboree. But this whole country seems to be heading the way of a sink estate. Still the PC brigade will be delighted, all being equally in the mire, perhaps then their work is done? One so hopes Good luck to the mothers involved , perhaps there are ashes there and a Pheonix will arise You never know the politicians might take it onboard for their election jamboree.
But this whole country seems to be heading the way of a sink estate.
Still the PC brigade will be delighted, all being equally in the mire, perhaps then their work is done? One so hopes

Good luck to the mothers involved , perhaps there are ashes there and a Pheonix will arise

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