School Careers Officer Tells 13-Year-Old Schoolgirl To Be A Slut
GET an eyeful of Aisher Smith, the 13-year-old schoolgirl in the pelmet-style skirt.
Aisher is meeting with her careers advisor who, it is alleged, offers the sage wisdom that the skirt make her looks like a “slut”.
Praise indeed. Sex is a growth industry. But the careers advisor, said to be one Virginia Green, adds that the skirt was “not doing much for your cellulite”.
Wells said. Caution is all. It is not just any adolescent teenager who can be a slut. And for many who try out only the very few make it all the way to the rank of slapper or tart.
Says Aisha’s mother Amanda:
“I couldn’t believe that a teacher would use such foul and disgusting language to a pupil.”
Cellulite is the last taboo.
“Aisher has a birthmark on her thigh which I think Mrs Green must have mistaken for cellulite. For one of her teachers to make a comment like that about it was really hurtful and she was upset.”
Mrs Green has apologised.
But it might be too late for Aisher, who now riddled with self-doubt retires her skirt and may soon be forced to sport face-saving thigh boots…
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March 8th, 2009 at 6:46 pm
It was dead. You just brought it up again after two weeks
March 8th, 2009 at 5:13 pm
WHO IS NO 20 & NO 26 - YOU ALL NEED TO GROW UP
THIS STORY WAS INTENTIONLY A STORY TO BE BROUGHT TO THE ATTENTION OF THE SCHOOL ABOUT ONE OF THEIR TEACHERS, WHO THEY ALLOWED TO STILL WORK THERE AND WASNT EVEN SUSPENDED. WHOEVER IS WRITING THESE NASTY BLOGS NEED TO GROW UP!
FUNNY THAT YOUR PARENTS ARE ALLOWING YOU ONTO THESE SITES!
NOW LETTER THIS MATTERT DIE AND GET OUT A BIT MORE
AISHERS MUM
February 26th, 2009 at 8:12 pm
The sad fact is that the only people looking at this old news are people with a direct connection with it - interpret from that what you will . I am concerned about the unpleasant ‘message’ in the last comment. I would be astounded if you were able to obtain someones IP address as a visitor to a blog and not the WEB host yourself. If you are able to then you’ve learnt a lot more at school than most people and I congratulate you. Let’s hope your undoubted intelligence and ingenuity allow you to never succumb to your desire for revenge. If I was a dectective I would assume from the close proximity in time of your response and Aisher’s mum’s response that you are very close to her in some way. Don’t get uptight about all of this - people will forget very soon. Learn from this unpleasant experience, become a better person for it.
February 19th, 2009 at 1:39 am
20 - bohunt pupil
1) her skirts shorter than pic?? and yours isnt lol
2) Doh, think pic, proves she doesnt always wears black tighTs (doesnt need to with her tanned skin)
3) and who are you, going on adult websites (see your parents/ OR parent give a toss bout you) - So dont u come bout being brought up respectfull- gotta laff at that one OH n if aisher picks on ya, u prob deserve it, coz aisher is one of the very few that have manners and speak politely so the jealousy part - ah r u not in the right crew lol- as for her bebo site - so bloody wot, shes a kid, whats your pics like lol>>>>
oh n PS she aint in NO trouble. YOU will be tho when your ip address is confirmed. see you soon
go get ya mum - oooops aint ya got one!!i know ya n im coming round
February 19th, 2009 at 1:27 am
didnt get any payment for story.. it was to expose an adult bully in the school …i told the school for brushing under carpet, i would expose them , my youngest ( 3 year olds) nursery said would be instant dismissal working with kids, and i know to be at work, verbal, written , then for serious offences, instant dismissall.
February 15th, 2009 at 2:36 pm
Chenier…. I agree with you. Depressingly it’s inevitably the parents who are at fault in all these publicised case. and they just don’t see it.
I was regularly in trouble for turning my school skirt over to make it shorter and pushing my knee length socks down to my ankles or trying to pretend I wasn’t wearing stockings by wearing socks as well.
. .
Far too many years ago
I had, on occasions, to go to the cloakroom and brush out the amateur back-combing, on other occasions, remove the teeny bit of make-up I tried to sneak in with and once or twice take nail varnish off with acetone in the science lab.
It happened to most of us at one time or another during our school years and we knew the price we would pay if we got caught.
Detention, detention, detention.
But its what girls did then and do now and its what teachers have to constantly tell them not to do.
But I would never have dared to complain at home because if I had it would have been in double trouble!!
February 15th, 2009 at 12:53 pm
Apparently the girl and her mother were so upset about it all that they had to…rush to the newspapers and get the girl to pose for photos?! The poor girl will have to spend the rest of her life being known as the ’slut’ girl as a result. Good work, Mum!
February 13th, 2009 at 11:03 pm
What I want to know is, why didn’t they ask the pope?
But, looking on the bright side, tabloid coverage of cellulite is likely to diminish for the foreseeable future since they now have the 12 year old dad to rant about, but the comment from Michelle Elliott, a child psychologist and chief executive of Kidscape seems eerily appropriate: she
‘criticised those who have made the story public, putting the children involved in line for public vilification.’
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/article5724616.ece?token=null&offset=24&page=3
Maybe some day it will dawn upon people that getting your name in the papers really isn’t something to be desired…
February 13th, 2009 at 9:34 pm
It’s Ban Ki Moonmetite here, during a lull in the fighting, in an uncharacteristic attempt to salve wounds.
My grandparents will have told my mother not to go out wearing ‘that’, my parents told my sisters not to go out wearing ‘that’, I tell my loinfruit not to go out wearing ‘that’. The ‘that’ changes with fashion (and at least has never encompassed toplessness or nudity outside of specialist beaches, Health & Efficiency magazine and that bloke who walks the nation barearsed) but our attitudes always line up with our parents eventually and what the next generation consider clothing becomes, to us, ‘that’.
Here’s a tip: If the policemen are starting to look younger as well then it’s not the yoof with the problem, it’s us. it is incurable and is called getting older. I don’t know what that is in layman’s terms. I’m a diplomat, for Pete’s sake, not a doctor.
Now if you’ll excuse me, I have to burn lots of pairs of shoes and find the number of the convent - I’m getting older too.
February 13th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
I am a bohunt pupil and I can say that …
1) her skirt is always too short
But I do think it was harsh and unproffesional to say that she looked like a slut, and to make the comment about celulite, and no matter how much of a bitch she has been to me, I actually feel sorry for her because of the trouble you have got her and yourself into xxx
2) she doesn’t always wear black tights, if not any tights
3) She has so not been brought up respectfully, because she is foul mouthed and I have been picked on/bullied by her on more than one occassion.
ps. I am not jealous so ‘aishers mother’ please do not tell me i am because I would never do the things that she does, and, have you seen her bebo site??? she looks like a slag, but that doesn’t necessarily mean she is one, but what does she want people to think? If you think you have brought her up properly, I would try harder to change her.
February 12th, 2009 at 6:48 pm
If you even still read this, Aisher’s mother, I want you to first know before reading this, that I am the mother of a 2 and a 4 year old. They are not in school yet, but I know because of my personal experience in school what is appropriate and what is not. Was it appropriate for the teacher to ridicule your daughter like that? No, but anyone with half a brain can also tell you that at age 13, children are impressionable, emotional, and a lot of times, very self-conscious. By calling your daughter a slut, that teacher could have either 1- gotten very upset and thought about nothing BUT the comments and feel bad about herself or 2- actually started wearing enticing clothing all of the time and started sleeping around. Trust me, it sounds horrible, I know, but nowadays at age 13, it’s not that uncommon. Obviously, by going to the school about it, both she and you were upset. But what else was the motivation behind it? I understand that by going to the local paper you were trying to bring the subject of bullying to others’ attention, but just WHY did you go to the school? I would’ve gone to the school first thing, but my reaction probably would’ve been a little different. I would have spoken with the school administration about the teachers’ comment, but I wouldn’t bring up the fact that my daughter has a birthmark on her thigh. Why do they need to know that? If she was wearing the attire you’ve stated she was wearing, then her birthmark wasn’t showing, right? Look, all I know is that both children AND adults are harsh nowadays. It’s a cruel world and all you can do is raise your child to the best of your ability. If you need help, ASK SOMEONE. I don’t know of your upbringings, but growing up, if I were to ever wear an outfit that was inappropriate enough to be called a ’slut’ in, my mother would not let me out of the house in it. It was “Get your butt back in that room and change your clothes into something decent right now or you can explain to the principal why you are late.’ My point?? If your daughter wears something inappropriate, remember that YOU are the parent, therefore, YOU are the authority and she will respect you and do as you ask. If she wasn’t wearing anything innapropriate then you don’t need to tell the paper the ENTIRE story. Why not just tell them that the teacher made a VERY innapropriate and discriminatory comment about you child? Did you need to include the ENTIRE story? Not necessarily. And using names has forced your child into years of teasing and torment. You don’t have to disclose any information that you don’t want to disclose, and when it comes to your children, you need to think about how YOUR actions will affect them before doing something like this.
And your comments about the others that have commented on this website and of all the media responses you have gotten about this story disgusts me. Your judgement is is severely biased. My children are young and they have manners. They don’t use foul language and they won’t in the future. They are respectful and they know right from wrong. And hey…they got all that WITHOUT their dad around. Trust me, I know where you’ve been…I was a single mother to two…out of an abusive relationship and I did EVERYTHING I could for those kids. I couldn’t provide a whole heck of a lot at times, but I made sure to provide what they needed and STILL continued to provide them with proper upbringing they need to be respectful and knowledgable. So don’t base judgements on things you know little about. These comments don’t tell too many tales…
February 12th, 2009 at 5:38 pm
Aishers Mother, you can’t blame anyone but yourself over the fiasco the story has turned into in various papers. You gave the story to the newspaper - what did you expect? As a mother you had the right to be and should have been upset with the term ’slut’ said to your daughter in school by a teacher. However, whatever possessd you to shout it to the world via a newspaper such a name was used to her is beyond my comprehension. You were obviously looking for publicity over the situation and you sure got it - at your daughter’s expense!
A truly caring, concerned and common sense Mother, I would think, would have gone to the school and asked for a meeting with the teacher and principle and straightened the matter out very quietly behind closed doors, gotten the explanation from the teacher, appropriate apology and then let it rest! Now, from your outrage on here to everyone I can tell you are a loving and caring mother but in my books you greatly lacked common sense and went off half-cocked without thinking through all possible repercussions.
You owe your daughter an apology!
February 12th, 2009 at 4:22 pm
YES and now i have live with myself for that!
It was the birthmark i wanted the 2nd picture to see, ( I never got to see those pictures and would never have condoned a full photo when the photographer said it was ONLY to see her mark.) I See the lovely press (The mail) didnt include her appropriate pictures in her uniform- Bad press, great stories. But hey, like i said, the story was about bullying, NOT about her having to pull her skirt up to get her birthmark photographed as now matter how long her skirt is : Now matter how her “marks and spencer Drop-Waist Easycare Pleated Skirt” < (looks great on the M & S site with long socks tho eh!) was , she WAS stacking chairs.
But hey, people forgot the moral of the story and morally insulted a child of 13- You have all done it. I am so glad i have brought my daughter up respectfull and her to know that is NOT appropriate language, as for yourselves and your foul mouths, im glad i wasnt brought up in your household or gave the impression to my child or ANY other that it is acceptable to be spoke about like that . “Looks” like a slut- is Definately NOT ” 2 things cost nothing- Manners and respect and that is what i bring my children up to have. Lest said about your own households!!
February 12th, 2009 at 2:44 pm
Aishers Mother, I’m from across the Pond but we have the same problems in our schools as it looks the UK does with girls dressing quite inappropriately when going to school. Our schools have been forced to enforce dress codes also because it seems parents don’t give a tinkers damn how their girls dress and what is exposed for all to view when walking or sitting down.
Now what I find quite interesting is your comment above: “There are measures in school to make parents aware of innapropriate dress codes- i was not made aware, then or previously!” Pity the schools have to tell parents what is appropriate dress, isnt it! Well I suppose one could say if parents don’t use common sense when being a parent then the schools have to do the parenting.
From what I gather you gave the story to the papers of your daughter being told she looked like a slut dressed like that? Shame on you. You yourself held your daughter up for ridicule by giving that story to the papers. Curious, is she even talking to you after causing her such embarrassment?
Now, I agree ’slut’ may not be the approporiate word, I myself think girls showing off their body by less than appropriate dress look like ‘hookers on the prowl.’ Both mean the same really but…
Now, I have sons not daughters. So I’ve been exposed to all kinds of dress when girls come over. Breasts bulging out of see thru blouses, skirts up to their buttocks, jeans so tight you can tell they have no underwear on…You want to know my reaction to such inappropriate enticing dress? I ask with a smile ‘you on the prowl today?’
February 12th, 2009 at 1:47 pm
Mountain out of a mole hill.
February 12th, 2009 at 12:59 pm
more wobble…
February 12th, 2009 at 12:30 pm
………..and breath. Is that the slap of a race card hitting the table there?
February 12th, 2009 at 12:06 pm
WELL at least my local paper have dealt with it in a more proffessional manner than the Mail. Her birthmarks shouldnt have had to be used or her skirt hitched to see it. A picture of her in her usual attire (with, must i say) black tights, long skirt has been used and to sound off at the school for not dealing with it in a manner that the eductaion authority have been following up. I wanted to expose bullying NOT my daughter . Oh and buy the way i have never recieved any monies or is it a compsensation claim blah blah - that was NOT what it was about , it was to expose an adults foul mouth to a child and to highlight bullying. For those people who endure it, not by other pupils but those in authority. But stupid idiots have all missed the story and condemmed a young girl to that sort of language. Your WORSE than the teacher (all your Lovely comments my daughter has read online) Well she does use the internet!!
Bravo britain for being single minded - or is it because she wasnt white and dressed in pigtails that she didnt get the intended story accross eh?? (Hence how bad the mum is- lol- but i also have white kids, does that help?? and ive worked all my life since i was 15!! lol
Thought as much!
February 11th, 2009 at 8:42 am
All I can say is that if my daughter had come home and told me that, or something similar, then I would have supported the teacher, and then had a quiet word with said teacher to find out the circumstances .
I would NOT NOT NOT have gone to the papers and set my daughter up to be bullied for the rest of her school days about cellulite. I can already ‘hear’ the comments from her peers…. teenage girls are not very nice to each other at the best of times.
I do so hope a demand for compensation doesn’t follow…………..
February 11th, 2009 at 7:25 am
aishers mother
Is that you Gandolf?????
February 11th, 2009 at 7:06 am
Aisher’s mother - thanks for writing in. What was more offensive the name calling, the uniform or the personal insult about her birthmark?
February 11th, 2009 at 6:04 am
N get that picture off PRETENDING its my daughter and spell properly. M can see a pile of shit steaming- ADULT to ADULT eh? but hey, you guys are used to using foul language against kids. ADULT to KIDS. lovely kids you must have yaselves eh? lol
February 11th, 2009 at 6:00 am
Ah Diddums > 13 year old reduced to tears? Erm , maybe if it was a little white girl with pigtails, then the story may have came accross as intended. Blah blah, girl came from bad upbringing- wot is the intended story, yes girl came from a crack head dad and had lived in domestic violence, blah blah well Yes, and what else, the mother- well, so bad she is, she left n lived in filthy refugess to escape that scum. she moves away to idilic area, where her daughters father cant find her and the first person she has a relationship with, well, is still with today (bearing his 2 children ) oh yes WHITE they are she has been in very long term relationship with since, oh yes , by he way he happens to be white, YES , white. The father takes on daughter as his own. YES. IS THIS STORY MORE FETCHING- OR BORING FOR YOU?? ” Mother has orked since she was 15, so no relying on stae story there either!!! Gutted.
” Scummy UK people speak retarded and insult young children for their own upbringing………. blah blah” should be the headlines. Now i will speak to you, not as an adult to child, but adult to adult= SCUM FILTH< Thank GOD i would never bring a child up in YOUR household. You all sound like you were dragged up, not brought up, If thats the way you intend to let children think of themselves, come on, not as if she doesnt see the internet, then im so happy to have brought up an innocent child and NOT the kind of FILTH you all have in your heads. Talking of weirdo`s, pervs and vile foul mouthed people lol, i havent met you all and hope to never. but would rather never want some of your sad pathetic vile sick lives. You have a lot to thank your own parents for say “Thank your parents for bringing, or dragging you all up. .!!!”
February 11th, 2009 at 3:12 am
Aisher’s Mother
The only comment about your daughter is one from Dairy. It’s slightly extreme to condemn every parent in Britain for one comment on one satire site.
February 11th, 2009 at 1:00 am
I am aishers mother and very nice comments i must say!
Firstly, let me get this straight i do NOT allow my daughter to leave the house like that- That picture was solely taken to accentuate the 2nd bullying comment in regards to the birthmark, “apparent celluilte”. - well i wasnt going to allow her to be photographed stacking chairs was i? The whole purpose, no matter what, was to highlight bullying. Bullying by a teacher to a child, but as britain, it has just proved what parents you are, would rather judge than listen! Dress her in cotton wool, why not? A child is innocent, the world outside is not. There are measures in school to make parents aware of innapropriate dress codes- i was not made aware, then or previously! But to approach my daughter was in a manner that is of complete disgust. Ms Green had NOT told Aisher to pull her skirt down previously, but pursued the comments directly in earshot of other pupils. What kind of parent would you be if you brushed it under the carpet? Children are impressionable and this should NEVER have happened to ANY child. Well done britain, you have just proved you are on the right path, to allow those comments to be made to your children when they are out of your juristiction. What great great parents you all are!
February 11th, 2009 at 12:51 am
Well, the perverts could be interested in both, as the cautionary tale of Marcial Maciel would suggest:
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/04/us/04legion.html?scp=8&sq=sexual%20abuse&st=cse
Presumably the Pope is heaving a sigh of relief that his order in 2006 consigning Maciel to a life of being locked up with no access to boys, girls or money, sorry, ordering him to retire to a life of prayer and penance, has distanced the Vatican from this nasty story, in a week when the rehabilitated bishop ordained by Lefevre turned out to be a Holocaust denier of the deepest hue.
Sometimes even Popes luck out…
February 10th, 2009 at 11:46 pm
Lots of the girls at our local school dress like ‘girls-who-may-be-amenable’.
It’s a bit weird - on the one hand we panic about them being groomed by paedophiles on the other hand they wander about looking more sexually experienced than your average socially inadequate perv.
February 10th, 2009 at 11:01 pm
well still, an adult cant go round calling kids sluts, slags, etc even if that is their thoughts. what? shall we allow it so maybe our children to believe that shit!!! maybe then they will become one . NICE one teacher, you are someone to look upto NOT twats
February 9th, 2009 at 1:31 pm
I can’t believe that a mother would allow her 13-year old daughter to go out looking like that….. especially as girls look much older than their years….
…just can’t understand it…