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St Mark’s Home for the Terminally Eager

It was one of the people who worked with the dog charity I was involved with.

There are people who don’t see people as people, but as sexual objects. I did, on reflection, rather think this person was trying to score one off on my husband, and her amoral nature did rather put me off gays. Her hatred of men was astonishing.

I do have a few of my clients who are gay, and they are in steady relationships, BUT they do tend to want to discuss the more nitty gritty stuff than other clients do, and apart from their pets I really do not want to know…that goes for the heterosexual couples too.

Over here now sexual preference is usually not a factor in getting a position in most private industry or Congress. In fact, now many corporations’ health insurance policies will permit the partner to be covered under the policy if they show they live together with intents of permanency. Example, shared bank accounts, lived together for over a year. There were many same sex preference people where I worked and other place I had worked over the years but I never saw nor heard of one approaching a heterosexual with intents. However, I did see the ‘effects’ of a breakup on one woman, who was in a high position, when she came to the office one morning with two black eyes and face all scratched up. Women can indeed be vindictive!

I have never had any truck with the bible, but its good manners not to flaunt ones’ sexuality on strangers. Most people, like me, aren’t bothered that gays are gay, but why do we have to be told on immediate first acquaintance?

Some years ago a female gay made a pass at me, which I rejected, one reason - I am not gay and she was therefore not my type and another I am already in a relationship.

If a straying male makes a pass at me ,and his advances are unwelcome, I make it very clear, and he usually gets over it, the female gay was very vindictive about being rejected despite knowing of the existence of my husband.

So what does make them supposedly ‘different ‘from heterosexual people? They can’t procreate together? Who says couples have to have children, except in that bible written by mere humans. Today more and more people are choosing not to have children. They are condemned for the intimate acts they perform together behind closed doors. Many people find the thoughts of what they do together as same sex partners disgusting. That is interesting and quite hypocritical, as the acts they have together are the same acts heterosexual people have together behind closed doors.

Moderator - perhaps read Clive’s post again?

There is still much debate over what causes a person be a homosexual and chose that lifestyle. Is it truly a free made choice to be of that lifestyle or it is a gene factor in many? I often hear people talk or jokes about a husband or wife who loses their spouse to a same sex person. Was it a bad marriage that drove that spouse to seek a same sex partner or was it something that was within them from birth to cause them to finally seek the same sex person?

I worked with a transexual and they were a very nice person. We would sit and discuss at times where we bought our clothes or what hairdressers we used but there were those who were nasty and mean and drove them to quit to escape those judgmental and narrow minded people.