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Madeleine McCann: Watching The Parents

mccann.jpgMORE no news on the Madeleine McCann case.

It is now a week since the three-year-old girl was snatched from a Portugal holiday resort.

The story has been distressing to watch on our TV screens. What it must like for the parents of Madeleine only a few can know.

BLAME

But their misery is far from complete. With no news of Madeleine, and the Portuguese police having no need to indulge the British tabloids with speculation and theory, Madeleine’s parents are the central characters.

And today’s front-page news, as reported by the caring Mirror, is: “THEY KNOW LEAVING KIDS WAS WRONG.”

Does the Mirror mean to say that Madeleine’s parents, Kate and Gerry, now think they did the wrong thing in nipping out for a bite to eat and leaving the children in the apartment on what they thought was a secure resort?

Does the Mirror mean that the McCanns know that popping back regularly to look at their children and checking on their well being was less than perfect?

Does the Mirror mean that the McCanns realise they should not have left their children alone, just like it is wrong to leave a child in a hotel under the auspices of a baby monitoring service, to leave a child in the car while mum goes to pay for petrol, to talk to a neighbour over a garden fence while the children are indoors?

Of course this is not the Mirror’s view. Oh, no. This is Madeleine’s grandmother, Susan Healy, saying: “They know this was a mistake. But it wasn’t child neglect, it wasn’t not caring for your children.”

mccanns.jpgThat she feels the need to say this is wrong. That the Mirror can lead with Madeleine’s grief-worn parents is pathetic and misguided. That the paper can talk of “people are asking why they didn’t make use of the crèche” at the resort or take the children out to dinner with them is wrong.

But the Mirror has news to write. And the police aren’t playing the game.

THEORIES

So the Mirror produces: “THE 6 THEORIES.”

Only six! Why this cautious approach? But it is all the Mirror has. And readers hear of the “PAEDOPHILE GANG”, the “LONE PAEDOPHILE”, the “JEALOUS MOTHER”, Madeleine wandering off and “DROWNED”, the “OPPORTUNIST PAEDOPHILE”, the “CHILDLESS COUPLE”.

But the Sun has more. It has 130 more. As the front-page headline screams: “MADDIE COPS HUNT 130 BRIT PAEDOS.”

The paper says “at least” 130 British paedophiles “might” have taken Madeleine McCann.

In “ALGARVE IS ‘HAVEN’ FOR PERVS”, readers learn that Portugal is a “magnet for sun-seeking perverts from Britain and the rest of Europe”.

Who knew that perverts get off on watching children at the beach?

Us And Them

But help is on its way. The Sun lists the British coppers who will go out there and see to it that justice is done. We, says the paper, are the only country with a sex offenders’ register.

All convicted perverts must inform the police of their desire to go abroad. At least 130 have. And the police are looking for them.

But – and whisper this – might it be that convicted sexual deviants don’t all tell the police what they plan to do? They are not monitored while overseas. And might it be that not all sexual predators are caught and make it to the list?

Among the policemans’ names is Detective Superintendent Graham Hill, attached to theChild Exploitation and Protection Centre. Hill is on the case. He has flown to Portugal.

Hill worked on the case of Milly Dowler. She was snatched from near Walton railway station, Surrey, in 2002. Her body was found six months later. Her killer or killers have never been caught.

Perhaps Hill’s experiences can help. Perhaps he’ll have more luck. Perhaps not.

Meanwhile, a family is distraught, and bearing up incredibly well under the strain and the merciless gaze of the newspapers…

  1. 1 Batfink Says:

    The thing that brought it all home was the grandmother’s statement in today’s Mirror - “I have heard my daughter wailing like a wild animal”. The grief and horror of that poor woman, and the father and other people who know Madeleine, is something most of us thankfully will never experience.

    I think people should now stop the judgements on the rights and wrongs of leaving kids. What’s done is done and the consequences are so horrific that I don’t understand how people can still be apportioning blame. Poor Madeleine, poor family. A living hell and we should feel nothing but sadness and compassion for them all, or we should start worrying about our own humanity.

  2. 2 Rosieposy Says:

    I cannot believe the scrutiny and efforts concentrated on Madeleine’s parents. As a parent myself of a child around her age I cannot imagine what they are going through.

    The media needs not to scrutinise but to use their power to Madeleine’s advantage and help to get her back. Why do any of us want to see the parents grief day after day - we just want to see positivity and Madeleine returned safely home.

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the McCanns for her safe return. Please let their be a happy ending for the mdedia to print ont his one xx

  3. 3 Anorak Says:

    Indeed. We have seen parents suffering. Enough. The focus should be on finding the girl

  4. 4 Maveywavey says Says:

    Some hotels don’t allow children under a certain age to have dinner and provide a tea for them instead. Their bedroom could be well away from the dining room and the children could be easily taken from the bedroom. What is the difference between that and what the McCann’s did. They are only human, having dinner without the hassle of small children. Surely they are allowed to do that.

  5. 5 Anorak Says:

    Agreed. Most big hotels have baby monitoring services…

  6. 6 Rebecca Says:

    The anguished-ridden face of Mrs McCann today whilst in the church today.It was absolutely sickening to the stomach to only see the pain and anguish that she is feeling right at this moment in time. I can not begin to even think about the pain that she is feeling. Mr McCann will be feeling exactly the same but as a mother myself. A mother feels the pain very differently. Its heart breaking…..I feel sick to the stomach. I switch on the TV every morning and still i see the same anguished, grief-stricken faces each time.

    Who ever has little Madeline, or to ever knows her whearabouts has to bring her back to them. They have torn away these two loving parents’ heart and soul. A child is the reason for everything in a parents life……lets see the grief and the anguish gone and some peace back in their lives. Let their reason for getting up in a morning and their whole motivation for life itself be brought back to them.

    Our love to all of the McCanns……..keep positive!! xxxx

  7. 7 Nicola Says:

    I want to see the reward increased into the millions!
    If everyone donated a small amount the reward would
    hopefully be enough to encourage the return of this beautiful little child!

    Please make this suggestion on each site you visit in the hope someone will set it up.

    Just a small amount from each person who has been touched by this deplorable act
    Should be enough to encourage the safe return of little Maddy MaCann!

    God Bless this little Angel and her family xx

  8. 8 Karen Says:

    Watching sky news, praying that maddy will get home safe and sound, at this stage maybe physic detective’s could help in the investigation. anything is worth a try. example: Tony Stockwell, Colin Fry.

  9. 9 sue Says:

    I back all that’s been said and it’s unfortunate that so much focus is on the grief stricken parents, taking their parents pictures and insult the portuguese police, who I am sure are doing their best.
    Karen mentions getting psychic people involved and I say - why not? No one knows if there is something on the other side, but by God, EVERYTHING should be done. It would do no harm assigning a team of policemen to work with psychics with a proven record.

  10. 10 Karen Says:

    Feel like I’m almost ‘part of it’ and feel a genuine pain. Ever since I saw the photo of Kate and Madeline I couldn’t seem to get them off my mind and have found myself stepping into what must just be a tiny fragement of the family’s nightmare. I’ve thought about them just before I go to sleep at night particularly and feel hurt by how frightening it must be for them in the dead of night. Nothing can be worse than where their minds must take them . Do they take comfort in holding their other children? I regularly go to the Algarve on holiday and it always seems so safe there. My two daughters are 3 and 7 and I’ve found myself stroking and kissing them even more than usual.

  11. 11 Susan Says:

    I know this is possibly stating the obvious, and there are probably thousands of emails circulating stating the very same thing, but I could not sit idly by without trying to something positive. If this mail spurs something positive to help the process of trying to find this little girl then I will have achieved something worthwhile.

    I have already written to Sky News and Radio 2, simply beacuse we have seen over and over the tremendous power of the media and celebrities, i.e. film, TV, music sporting personalities. If someone were able to kick start, via contacts, a massive operation to harness as many resources as possible it would be another positive step to try and find Madeleine. It’s simply networking on a grand scale.

    Surely there must be something that could be done to raise a reward sizeable enough to encourage someone to come forward with intelligence to secure her safe return. I welcomed the report of £1 million being put up by Steve Winyard. Someone must know where she is.

    A phone-in switchboard could be set up and manned in Portugal, that telephone number could be emblazoned across every television screen and newspaper in Portugal and the surrounding countries, huge posters along the roadside hoardings, on the bill boards. If there is a possibility that she has been stolen to order, then publicity should spread worldwide, in the hope of picking up a lead. It’s all within the power of the media to do this.

    Posters could be printed in volume and stuck in every conceivable location, shops, cars, public transport etc.

    The newspapers are a great distribution network, they give away CD’s and DVD’s, they could have a good quality poster printed and give it away in the daily newspapers, asking the public to display it on their property and in their cars.

    Instead of pushing her as a less newsworthy item into the inner pages, there should be a massive surge of pooled resources to keep this little girls face to the forefront of every newspaper both at home and abroad, on every television news channel at home and abroad, as much as can possibly be done could only be a good thing surely. At this late stage the only chance is to keep her high profile. Her kidnappers will not be expecting this massive outcry and show of public support.

    Put out a message to them, appealing to them for her safe return, assure them that she can do them no harm, she is not a threat to them, they have no need to harm her, just leave her somewhere safe and call the police to fetch her.

    I have no personal link to this family. I’m simply a mother with 3 children, one of whom is a beautiful little girl age 4. Every single thing in my daily routine makes me think of that poor child, snatched from her bed, terrified, enduring who knows what terrible ordeal. The anguish felt when a small child goes missing is indescribable……but think what that poor child must be going through right now. It’s horrifying.

    Anyone who has children cannot fail to feel deeply disturbed by this dreadful situation.

    Please, please if anyone reading has contacts, give these suggestions some consideration, and if you can make things happen. Anything has got to be worth a go.

  12. 12 vicki Says:

    i am a mum of two and would never leave my kids unattended in any situation, especially on holiday. these parents will have to live with this for the rest of their lives. i cant imagine what their going through, but i do feel they are partly responsable. i hope maddy is returned safely, i dont know how those parents can live with themselves.

  13. 13 sarah Says:

    NOT EVERYONE WATCHES THE NEWS OR READS THE PAPER SO WHY NOT PUT HER POSTER ON SOMEWHERE LIKE EBAY’S HOME PAGE,EBAY IS ONE OF THE MOST SHOPPING WEBSITES USED,ISNT EVERYTHING WORTH A TRY.

  14. 14 Clueless In Portugal: Madeleine McCann » Big Brother Celebrity News & Gossip : Anorak Says:

    [...] not telling. They will not end the agony. They will not end the nightmares for Madeleine and her parents. Perhaps the Express can help? Perhaps not. “PARENTS’ AGONY: POLICE CALL OFF HUNT FOR [...]

  15. 15 Tina Richards Says:

    I agree with putting her poster on ebay and especially the comment about using the newspapers to include a poster too. Also, you would think that a switchboard could easily be set up with a facility to collect donations from people who want to help. I would certainly like to help with this sort of thing provided that we know exactly where the money ends up! This story has affected so many people that I think there is a good chance of finding resources to help track down these vile people who have Maddy. Please let her be alive and found soon so that we can all get back to some sort of normality and especially for her poor parents.

  16. 16 Anorak Says:

    The poster of the missing girl on ebay? Well, in America thay are placed on milk cartons. Do they do any good? Or do such things just spread anxiety?

  17. 17 Anorak Says:

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    http://www.anorak.co.uk/forums/

  18. 18 gina smith Says:

    I am a mother of 5 with a little girl Maddies age and like so many people I find this story is with me all day.
    Yesterday I didn’t care about Tony Blair resigning and just wanted to know if there was any information.
    As with many people I too would not leave my children alone anywhere not just because of something like this but because of fire, chocking or just a nightmare. If you can’t hear them cry then you are too far!!

    However, I agree this is not about the parents its about a frightned little girl who is going through god know what and wants her mummy. What I fail to understand is that everytime we see the parents they do not appeal directly to the person/persons who took her. I would not be affraid to publically plead,scream,cry for my daughters safe return even offer them immunity from prosecution if this could be achieved.

    I believe that the person/persons who took her would have definatly have gone underground due to the amount of publicity around this incident but I also believe that they would be following the news reports. Get the parents to beg, plead and hope that somewhere someone connected to all this may have a change of heart!!!

  19. 19 mac Says:

    We should not judge Madeleine’s parents. We should pray and pray and pray for her safe return.

    If anyone knows anything ,any little snippet of information PLEASE, PLEASE get in touch with the police.

    As well as the runners on Sunday and Celtic football team lets all wear yellow this weekend.

    Thoughts and prayers to all the Mc Canns.

  20. 20 fulmar Says:

    The media’s criticism of these parents is justified and useful, if it stops other irresponsible parents from leaving their toddlers unattended.

  21. 21 c duarte Says:

    How could the father & mother of 2 years old & 3 years old children be left alone, while they having out for drinking & dinning, how can they do this. They are the only one to blame, and they should be taken to court. I hope the child is fine, but if the worst should happen, the parents should be jail for life.

    YOU ARE TO BLAME, not the portugal police, YOU

  22. 22 kirsty Says:

    I too find this heartbreaking, i watch the news everyday hoping for the good news that she has been found, i have a little girl ages 2 and just the thought of her being taken kills me inside, god knows how maddies parent feels, my thoughts go out to them deeply. i just hope there is a good ending to this nightmare please please please.
    how can anyone do this to an innocent little girl and family.

  23. 23 kirsty Says:

    can i just say to c duarte how can u say such a thing yes they was left alone but the was less than 50 yrds away god they didnt think this would happen did they dont be so cruel for heven sakes. their little girl is missing get a heart.

  24. 24 Terri Flavell Says:

    I can not believe how this story has really affected me. I too have a little girl, 3 next week, and I just can’t even begin to imaging what the Mccanns must be going through. I feel deeply touched, helpless and very sad. I find myself praying for her when I get into bed at night and am constantly watching the news to see if anything has happened. Whatever the outcome of this the parents will blame themselves for the rest of their lives and I don’t think pointing the finger and apportioning blame is not what anyone needs right now. I think we are all just looking for an answer, a clue. I sincerely from the bottom of my heart hope that she is found and soon. My thoughts are with them every waking minute and I can do nothing more than pray for them all. I am not in anyway shape or form religious but when all thats left is hope and prayer, then so be it.

  25. 25 chris Says:

    Perhaps C duarte is not English. There is a huge cultural difference between child care in England and abroad. Many European parents may feel the macann’s should have had their children with them in the evening, but in England very young children eating out with their parents in the evening is rare. Young English children will often be in a routine which means they would be tired and upset if they stayed up late. C Duarte is obviously distressed by the facts but please do not apportion blame. The parents made a judgment that turn out to be disastrous but they are surely paying a terrible price already for that. I have five children and my heart goes out to the Macanns. I am sure they are blaming themselves enough already. As parents we make decisions all the time and rarely thank God do we pay such a high price for a wrong one. I do not feel the Macanns think the Portugese police are to blame for anything. Please let us stop judging and blaming everyone and instead all use our energy to pray for Maddy’s safe return.
    Whenever I think of her, I send up a silent prayer and try to stay positive. That may help, criticism will not.

  26. 26 sophie Says:

    give the parents a break, they were stayin at a family friendly resort, there apartment door was locked and the windows shut. they were checkin on them. they wernt far away either, its not there fault. how were they to know that someone would break in and take maddie. they couldnt know that. the main focus should be on finding maddie, not saying whos to blame. i just hope and pray that maddie is found safe and returned to her family where she belongs. and this is coming from a 15 year old!

  27. 27 WENDY Says:

    I agree with everything said, I have also been thinking they should get Tony Stockwell out there anything is worth a try. I have 2 children and am feeling the pain every moment along with the parents of that poor girl. I hope and pray constantly for a safe return. I think big posters just absolutely everywhere , leaflets, and newspaper coverage front page every day , never mind politics right now this is more important. lets just hope its not too late. I think the world has really united with this and that people are putting up money for her return. I want more than anything for her to be returned to her family. . xx

  28. 28 Madeleine McCann: Increasing The Fear » Big Brother Celebrity News & Gossip : Anorak Says:

    [...] fourth birthday. And the newspapers are leading with pictures of Madeleine’s mother, Kate. The Sun says “We share your pain”. There is nothing more terrible than this. The awfulness is [...]

  29. 29 Cathy Lavery Says:

    I am so saddened at what has happened to the McCann family. This is the worst thing that could ever happen to parents. I have a daughter and niece the same age as Maddie and I cannot and would not want to feel the pain they are going through for a split seconed.
    I am hoping and praying that whoever has Maddie has some kind of a conciense and they let somebody know where she is. She needs to be with her family.

  30. 30 karen Says:

    I have two boys 7 & 8 and they have prayed for Madeleine at school and keep asking has she been found yet and it breaks our hearts to say no. Therefore i cannot imagine the pain that they are feeling right now. At first we may have said why did they leave them but now this has to be forgot. We as parents all do it differently what some of us may think is ok others will always disagree this is the world we live in. I am so sorry for what has happened and we all want this resolved as quickly as possible for the family to stop the pain for them. Just keep hoping and praying that Madeleine will come home soon. xxxxxx

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